OK! You are in a relationship — a perfect relationship (you may think so), a relationship that is full of love, surprises, and affection.
Then suddenly things started to change - cold feelings, avoidance, less time, and less attention, and even caught him dating someone else. What did you do?
Yeah right. I did the same way too like confronting him, making extra effort, getting his attention, and the worst is "loving him more". Funny but true. You keep on fighting for your relationship just to save it, telling him "Stay, let's work it "and loving him almost suffocatingly without knowing you are becoming pitiful. And being crazy enough to do things that make him dump you more (hahaha). All these will are useless because they do not love you anymore.
Still, things weren't right. You are tired, you feel too much pain and there's nothing more you can do but to devour pain and cry.
And all the good things you've done for them will be a memory.
Yes, dear, love may fade but memories will never. There are things that aren't meant to be. The only thing you have to do is to accept and move on. Slowly and slowly.
How? Well, "free yourself". How do we exactly free ourselves? - by letting them go. Seems easy right huh? Freeing someone you love is not an easy thing yet the best thing to do because letting them go is a way of freeing yourself too. In this way, it will free you from heartaches, suffering, and pain and you will find love in someone else again. Then the time comes when you are healed.
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